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Deep Questions to Ask a Girl

When it comes to conversations with ladies, knowing what to say or ask and when to ask is very important. Subsequently in this article, I will be listing several questions that you can ask a girl. These questions are far from just light or simple questions, they are deep questions that can lead to hours of discussion, this is because just one question can lead to countless other questions.

These questions are not for friends you just met, they are for girl-friends you have had conversations with before and you know so well, they are also for girls who like serious and deep conversations.

These questions require detailed answers and they will lead to hours of In-Depth conversations between you and the girl. Let’s get started

  • Is there someone in your life right now that you can sacrifice your life for?

This question will trigger a lot of emotions and detailed answers which will make you realize how much she can sacrifice for the people she loves.

  • Is there an event or an occasion that you can point out that made a significant impact on who you are right now?

This question will give you detailed answers on who she is and how she is affected by everything that has happened in her life in the past.

  • What hope do you have about the future, do you think it’s going to be better in the future than now? Why do you think so?

This question will make her tell you her plans for the future, how positive she is about the future and what she is willing to do to achieve her dreams about the future.

  • What’s your view about human morality, do you think it’s innate or inculcated?

A girl that understands this question well will give you detailed information on what she knows about morality and how people get it.

  • What do you think is the most significant thing in any relationship?

With this question, you are sure to get enough answers on what she thinks a relationship should be based on, her answers will make you decide what to do next with her. In case.

  • What false hope do you often give yourself, what lies do you always tell yourself?

This question is tricky and at the same time funny but it’s an important question to ask a girl. Everyone has fantasy you know? and most of the time we know they most likely won’t come to pass but still, we keep giving ourselves hope in it.

  • Would you prefer the last generation to this present generation, do you think this generation is better than the last, and why do you think so?

This question will make you realize whether she is deep into the present-day civilization or she prefers the primitive way of life.

  • Is there a particular thing that keeps you up all night?

This question does not mean having a sleepless night, it’s about what motivates her to work hustle tirelessly day and night.

  • What does poverty mean to you and what’s the worst level of poverty you have seen before?

With this question, you will realize her view about poverty, which level of the wealth ladder she came from, and how that has shaped the kind of person she is when it comes to money, poverty, and affluence.

  • How do you think parents affect their children’s life negatively?

This question will give you clarity of her relationship with her parents and how that has affected her upbringing, how that has shaped her parenting view generally.

  • What’s your view about war, quarrels, and misunderstandings between people, groups, and countries? Do you feel it is unavoidable or do you think it can stop forever?

This question will make her present her view on whether it’s possible to coexist without fight/war or not.

  • What do you think is the most important thing a person can do to develop themselves? 

This will trigger her to tell you how much she knows about personal development and the important factors that can bring about self-development.

  • Do you believe in the equality of human worth or do you think one human is worth more than the other?

This question will trigger her to give her view about equality, whether she is biased in her answer will say a lot about the kind of person she is.

  • What makes a person bad, do you think they were born that way or did their environment make them bad?

The answer she provides here will show if she is someone who will justify doing something evil even when everyone is saying it’s evil.

  • Are you of the view that humans have gotten better as the generations go by or gotten worse?

This question will lead to other deep conversations about the human race and how each generation has affected the behaviour of each human.

  • Do you think there is a way that the government can ensure that its politicians are less corrupt, if yes, HOW?

This question will make her give her view about corruption in politics, how it’s affecting society and how it can be avoided.

  • If there is a way that science and technology can spot a supposedly criminal, should they be jailed before they commit the crime or not?

This question is a little bit funny but it will show you her view about crime generally and how it can be reduced or possibly tamed.

  • Why do you think a lot of people are alone emotionally, why do you think people find it difficult to make genuine connections with other people?

This question will make her talk about how much she understands human emotions, how much she connects with other people, and what she thinks can make genuine connections very difficult.

  • What do you think are the factors that hinder people from achieving their goals?

Here, she will be able to tell you what factors she feels hinder people from achieving their goals and how they can avoid these hindrances.

  • What do you think are examples of public misbehaviours that are caused by inner and emotional scars?

Well, most people behave abnormally because of their past personal scars, this question will trigger her to talk about hers and how much she understands this behaviour.

  • Do you think beauty serves any significant purpose in society?

Answering this question, you will be able to understand her beautiful view and if she thinks it has any significant purpose in society.

  • What are you zealous about right now?

This question will make her talk about what she is passionate about and why she is so much interested in it.

  • If you had the opportunity to go back in time (10years back), what would you change about your future?

This question is tricky and the essence is to make her talk about some mistakes she had made in the past that she may want to correct or steps she would have taken if she had known.

  • How far have you travelled and if you have not, would you like to?

The answer she provides to this question will show if she likes to travel or not if she likes adventures or not.

  • What could make you withdraw or break a relationship with a guy?

This question will make her talk about what she thinks are red flags in a relationship, are those deal-breakers something you agree with? The answer she provides to this question will give you a sign on whether to improve things with her.

  • What can you point out as the best thing about where you grew up?

This question will make her talk about where she grew up, whether she likes the place, and how the place has affected her positively.

  • If you knew tomorrow would be your last day on Earth, what’s the last thing you would do?

Here, the answer she gives will make you realize those things she has set her mind to achieve before she leaves this earth.

  • What do you like most about yourself that make you proud of yourself?

With this question, she will give you details of what makes her appreciate herself, what she likes most about herself and this, in turn, will give you the information you need about her.

  • What’s your favourite movie of all time?

Okay, this question will make her tell you whether she is a movie person or not. There are a lot of grand-breaking movies, this question will make her tell you which one is her favourite.

  • Do you have any secret skills or talents that you have not developed?

Answering this question, you will find out some new things about her that you have not known before and probably you can help her develop those skills.

  • Is there or are there some things you used to love doing but you stopped, why? 

We all have things we do before but we stopped doing them because of one reason or the other, this question will trigger her to talk about hers and why she stopped.


If you are going to cram a set of questions when it comes to talking with ladies and the right questions to ask them, it should be these ones.

Girls like interesting guys/men that can talk and make them talk, knowing what to ask and what to talk about will determine how long and how well you can get her addicted to you. Study the list of questions above and see how the game changes.


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